Monday 8 October 2012

The Absentee ; )



I have been horribly absent here – the poor blog! Left all dusty and lonely! My apologies, if anyone is still here, coming around constantly to check on updates. I must admit that I have just been too lazy, too busy and too overwhelmed since N started school and things at work have become somewhat challenging (in a very good way).

Our summer was spent away in Istanbul. Such a beautiful city by the sea! Crowded, colourful and oh so charming! Very touristy though, you can’t go anywhere without someone trying to sell you something or coax you to eat at their restaurant. But we love the hotel we stayed in, excellent customer service, great food and comfortable rooms! We were offered many goodies too, like free lunch buffet everyday and complimentary drinks at their rooftop terrace to watch the sunset. One of my favourite moments has to be the rooftop experience, watching the sun setting against a magnificent backdrop of minarets! Truly such a refreshing sight. We bought a lot of beautiful marble & ceramics souveniors too – it was risky but it all arrived home in one piece! = )

Such colourful delights can be found at almost every Bazaar.

Sunsetting on Istanbul
And of course, it is always good to see family and friends again. Our Eid was well spent back home! All that delicious food, familiar sounds, smells, loving and friendly company of our loved ones. Nothing beats all of that. The country itself has changed even more in the last year. It is getting way too crowded, too expensive and too foreign for me personally. I am now officially a tourist in my own home country. I hope the government cherish and preserves the old and familiar sights.

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The concrete jungle where I come from
N started primary One! Scary time especially for her parents! So much changes and challenges! More subjects, homework almost every day and to top that, it is all of course in Flemish. So, I am managing ok but I can’t imagine as she goes further having to deal with maths, science, history, geography and whatever else in Flemish – argh! But I am so lucky to have B by my side. And when she has school only in the morning (every Wednesday), we send her to art class at the local Musuem. So far she has been very enthusiastic about her classes and her art work. We are impressed. She had an introduction to drama class recently but we have yet to sign her up for that. She’s in 2 minds about it.

And of course, every year in September, I get a  year older but sometimes none the wiser! This year is a whole big number! Bowling with the extended family and throwing ourselves a small party for 3 aside – I did a lot of reflecting and I went through a lot of melancholic moments this whole month! Being thankful for my life now and how I wouldn’t change anything in my past!

Work’s getting more interesting too – if everything falls into place – I should be able to start on a course soon. And this helps to “bump” me up at work or if I ever get retrench, having such a diploma is helpful too. As if that wasn’t enough, I bravely agreed to take up a Dutch language course again – once a week but top that with household duties and running around for N. I hope with all my heart God helps me to keep it all together.

But knowing women like J and F, helps me to take on my challenges head on! So wish me luck my loveliest of readers, it is going to be such a super busy end of the year period for the whole household!